Grief Resources

How do I know when it is time?

Deciding when it is time to say goodbye to a beloved pet is never easy. Changes in quality of life, such as difficulty eating, walking, breathing, resting comfortably, or enjoying favorite activities, may indicate that your pet is suffering. We are here to help guide families through this difficult decision with compassion and honesty.


What happens during the appointment?

Our goal is to make the experience as peaceful and comfortable as possible for both you and your pet.

The appointment typically begins with time for discussion and questions. Your pet will then be given medications to help them relax and rest comfortably before the euthanasia procedure. The final medication is an overdose of anesthetic administered in a gentle and peaceful manner.

Families are encouraged to spend as much time with their pet as they need throughout the process.


Will my pet feel pain or discomfort?

We carefully monitor your pet throughout the entire appointment to ensure they remain comfortable. If any unusual responses occur, they will be addressed promptly and compassionately.

In pets that are very ill, elderly, or dehydrated, veins can sometimes be more difficult to access. If this occurs, Dr. Kotsch will discuss alternative approaches to ensure your pet remains peaceful and comfortable throughout the procedure.


What if my pet is anxious or fearful?

If you believe your pet may be stressed by the presence of a veterinarian in the home, we recommend contacting your primary care veterinarian ahead of time to discuss medications that may help reduce anxiety prior to the appointment.

If your pet has a history of aggression, nervousness, seizures, or other behavioral or neurological conditions, please let us know in advance so we can plan accordingly and provide the safest, least stressful experience possible.

Pet Loss Helpline

APLB Pet Loss Helpline
1-855-245-8214


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Recommended Books for Adults

  • Grieving the Death of a Pet — Betty Carmack
  • My Pet Remembrance Journal — Enid Traisman
  • When Your Pet Dies: A Guide to Mourning, Remembering, and Healing — Alan D. Wolfelt

Recommended Books for Children

  • The Tenth Good Thing About Barney — Judith Viorst
  • Saying Goodbye to Lulu — Corinne Demas
  • Jasper’s Day — Marjorie Blain Parker
  • When a Pet Dies — Fred Rogers
  • My Pet Died: A Coloring Book for Grieving Children

Home Burial Information

For families considering home burial, local regulations and practical considerations should be reviewed carefully. The following resource may be helpful: